Goodbye My Sweet Boy
In loving memory of
Duke Frodo Tewes
Today marks one week since we lost our beautiful boy Duke to tick fever with IMHA complications. He fought bravely for almost two weeks before he became too weak to fight anymore. In that time, we faced the hardest and most ridiculous roadblocks beginning with the lack of good veterinary care, the politics between doctors not wanting to treat another Doctor’s patient, difficulty finding his medicines to having to learn to administer IV and injections ourselves. In the end we drove him to Chennai for the best care with the best doctor, but we’d run out of time. We miss our Dukie boy so much and are trying to move forward even though the whole house reminds us of him.
Duke loved food, his daily walks and most of all loved to sleep, and I keep expecting to see him around the corner fast asleep, even snoring or dreaming. He slept so much that last year I did this series of photos of him. Even in death, he looked like he might just be sleeping. So calm despite the internal trauma.
In all of this, God was our greatest hope and support, providing for us in miraculous ways at every step. To be honest, getting Duke back last year and having him close these past 8 months was the greatest gift we could have hoped for. On top of that, a few days before Duke died, I got this verse from God, ‘He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters.’ – verse 2 of Psalm 23 and I believe it’s where Duke is now. It gives me a deep sense of peace and reassurance and that is what I needed, in the face of death.
Jonas
So sorry 😢
This made me sad….
Shiloh and Duke. On the eternal rabbit hunting grounds now. RIP Doggy boy.
Shalomie
Thank you Jonas, I can picture that! Your mum said the same thing.
Vinu and Vincent
Dear Shalomie and Obed,
This is such a beautiful tribute to your little puppy.
Hope you two find comfort in all the memories he’s left behind with you all.
Love and hugs,
Vinu and Vincent
Shalomie
Thank you Vinu and Vincent. I have memories from everyday to keep me going! I think half the photos on my phone are of Duke! 😀
Johshy Tewes
My heart aches emembering seeing you and Obed in anguish as Duke was gasping for breath. We stood around him midnight wanting to share in your pain my dear ones. Your face and Obeds face of pain and tears breaks my heart. But a small satisfaction that I was able to share those moments with you my dearest ones.
Those few last days left a lasting impressions on me, of his love and your great affection for him.
I loved your write up.
A good way of saying bye.
Bye dear Duky boy. How much happiness you brought to the couple , my children Obed&Shalomie.
Thank you so much.
Much love
Johshy in tears.
Shalomie
Oh Aunty your message made me cry. I was so glad to be with you and for your love and support for both of us. Thank you for sharing in our sadness. Love you!
Reeba Cherian
Dear dear Obed and Shalomie,
What a touching poem and tribute !!!
The best miracle was getting him back after your move to India. All of you were blessed to have each other. Duke knew he was deeply loved.. And you did the very very best for him. Always remember that . Considering what he went through ….He is definitely in a better place with no more pain and suffering . Love you !!!!
Shalomie
Thank you Aunty Reebs, from Obed and me. Duke is definitely free of the suffering and pain. So grateful for the last 8 months!
Sam
I’m crying!!